... not getting involve at all, i m just here shiok sendiri being disgusted with you, that's all. anyway, your actions only make her more disgusted with you.
human psychology is such, they will never admit the truth and never admit that they are in the wrong. most people prefer to be the victim than to be the tormentors as usually victims are the ones that got more fan base. also, when someone is so much comfortable in their comfort zone, it's hard for them to come out of it. you are living in your comfort zone, no matter how unhealthy it is, you refuse to budge. but when you are in a relationship, no matter how much you love your comfort zone, if it hurt the one that you love, you will willingly get out of the comfort zone and not tell your love one that she is forcing you. yes, she is giving you an ultimatum, yes, that is not really fair, but you need to see her point of view too, it is not fair for her too. when there is a distrust embedded so deep into the relationship, it takes a lot of effort to take the seed out. but what did you do? you did the most idiotic thing a person can do, you push the seed further in by acting all defensive and make it seems like it's ALL her faults... *shakes head* then now i see you create a blog just to air out all the twisted truth, i as her big sister, how to swallow wor... so here i am, being shiok sendiri, blogging out what i think and feel lor... no, i m not involved at all, infact, i didnt even pick up the phone to call you, did i? seriously, u put urself in her shoes la, how would you feel if you receive calls from me and lynn ka ka cau cau you about the issues between you and her while you are still pondering and pissed off over things? also, you are being selfish for expecting her to stay at home on weekends when you told her that you will be spending sometime with your daughter, and then get all pissed off when she has plans for weekends. no, she did not go out on a 'date' with me as what you've described. we were merely hanging out. maybe you've forgotten that there is such is as platonic friendship. if you have wanted to spend time with her during the weekend, you should have told her earlier, she will definitely tell me she would not be free on that weekend. but you didnt. so she made her own plans. is that wrong? by EXPECTING her to stay at home when you are not meeting her and EXPECTING her to be on your becks and calls is like treating her like your slave. do u honestly love her or do you love the idea of OWNING her? i know now whatever i say also you will not really put in your mind one, you will only be pissed thinking : who the fuck do you think you are, blogging about me and M in your blog??? i agree, i m not suppose to be involved, but how do you feel if your younger sister/good friend is being mistreated by someone whom she actually loves deeply? think about it, if you 2 are meant to be, u 2 will be together again. all the best la.
final words: think with a clear mind and put urself in her shoes and see if what she is doing is really that wrong or bad?