Came across 3 different guys of the same age group with totally 3 different attitude towards achieving their goal in career. And it's quite interesting! No prize for guessing which guy i m attracted to ;-)
Guy #1, a go getter. He knows where he wants to be in 5yrs time. He is going all out to get it. Even if it means sacrificing his soul. He will do whatever it takes to reach his goal. He will go all out in full force to get what he wants to achieve. And if possible, achieve it in less than 5 yrs. His life is full of excitement.
Guy #2, a do-er. He knows what he wants in life and career and he is slowly but surely reaching there doing the things he needs to do. And at the same time, he stops and smell the roses when needs to. He weighs the pros and cons before he proceed in doing what he needs to do. He pace his steps. Very stable who think before he act.
Guy #3, a thinker. he knows what he wants but don't have any idea on how to get what he wants. Not focus. Thinks the whole world is against him. When shit happens, it's never his fault but others' fault. When help is rendered to his direction, he get suspicious and turn it down. Then lament that his luck is bad. Don't take the initiative to make the 1st move to get what he wants, instead, just sit and think of the easiest way out. Complainer. Refused to acknowledge own faults. Thinks he is very smart.